Dr.Jon

1. Filipina girls are renowned for their beauty.

They surely stand out among Asian women in terms of charm and femininity. If you think other way you probably have never seen Angela Perez Baraquio – the first Asian American and Filipino American who was crowned Miss America 2001 and Miss Hawaii.

2. Filipino girls are a delight to be around because of their disposition and personality.

Since birth Filipinas are raised in a special sense of honor called Delikadesa (or Delicadeza). Delicadeza is a Spanish term which when translated in English means daintiness. It is defined as a sense of propriety, an act of being refined or delicate in tastes and manners. It is Delikadesa what gives Filipino women such admirable qualities and distinguish them from Western ladies. You will never find a proper Filipina bring shame onto herself and her family by lying, cheating, stealing, running around with different men or flunking out of school. It is one of the meanings of Delikadesa – pride in doing the right thing.

3. Filipinas are understanding, patient and composed.

Most Filipina girls would never engage in a quarrel or a loud argument simply because this wouldn’t suit a real Lady. They are taught to speak politely, with a gentle tone of voice. Arguing is just not acceptable, along with public criticism. This soft spoken, quiet and understanding nature of the Filipina Ladies is the desired trait that Filipinas strive towards.

4. Filipina girls are generous and naturally caring and supportive.

The common spirit of survival has united the Filipinos for centuries making generosity and loyalty towards family a time-honored tradition. The caring and supportive nature of the Filipinas is apparent in the fact that there are no booming businesses for retirement homes or orphanages in the Philippines – they would never abandon a child or a member of the family in need.

5. Filipina girls believe in a one-man one-woman relationship.

Since there is no “absolute divorce” in the Philippines, Filipinas are raised in a high regard for the sanctity of marriage and consider it a life long commitment. Some, in fact many who marry these Filipina beauties, swear they make the best wives in the world – loyal, loving and faithful past death.

6. Filipina women put family first before money.

Faithfulness to the family is a tradition that is characteristic of the Filipino society. To the Filipina, family will always remain a great priority. Filipino women, whom many would consider as coming from a relatively poor country, view the close loving bonds of their family as their wealth. They are more willing to sacrifice career than a family.

7. Filipinas are excellent home keepers.

Filipino ladies equate domestic responsibility with being a good wife – their home is a great source of pride for them and they do their best to create a warm and loving environment for their family. For the Filipina even yelling at home would mean de-facing her home so you will probably never find a Filipina woman screaming or breaking dishes.

8. Filipinas are well educated.

The Philippine culture attaches great importance to college education. Pride in accomplishment at school is instilled in Filipinas since their childhood and female college enrollment even exceeds that of the male. This affects the social positions too. Unlike other Asian countries where women tend to be in more subservient positions, the Philippines businesses are more accepting of women performing business. This is apparent with the current Philippine president Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo – the second Philippine woman to hold this esteemed position.

9. Filipino girls are religious.

The Philippines is predominantly Roman Catholic (the only Christian nation in the Far East) and it is common amongst Philippine families to raise their children in the church. So don’t be surprised if your Filipina girl is more devoted to her religion than you are to yours.

10. Filipina-American marriages are more successful than American-American marriages.

An interesting fact is that according to the statistics Filipina-American marriages arranged through dating services have a lower divorce rate (about 20%) than the standard American- American marriage (about 40%). Still, the statistics may vary according to which source you use.

Of course I have made some generalizations here but basically this should have answered your question why so many men prefer a Filipina girl for dating. If you too decide to give it a try and date a Filipina, I wish you luck – who knows, you might find the girl you’ve been looking for.

Dr.Jon

1. Don’t just love each other, like each other too.

2. Tell her/him why you love her/him often.

3. Be affectionate to her/him.

4. Say I love you to each other, at least once in every 24 hour period.

5. Tell your lover you are their love Genie and you will grant him/her three wishes. Things get quite interesting.

6. Make memories together.

7. Never forget that the simple things in life make life worth living.

8. The most cherished gifts are the ones that come from the heart, not the wallet. make gifts for her/him.

9. Have a night that is worth $1,000,000 dollars, but on a $10 dollar budget.

10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.

11. Instead of going out on a date, plan an evening at home, turn off the lights, burn scented candles, watch the sunset, then take a long walk to gaze at the stars.

12. Never, ever forget “holidays”! (The ones that the two of you make up too)

13. Do everything to make him/her happy.

14. Don’t evaluate or criticize your partner.

15. Defend and respect your partner.

16. Be there for the good and the bad times.

17. Find a nice secluded spot that is only yours and take her/him there every month.

18. Call from your vacation spot just to say Hi.

19. Always ask her/him how the day was. and listen!

20. Too much of a good thing can be bad.

21. Travel more than 1 hour out of town together.

22. Dance in the rain. (Even in your best outfit)

23. Watch the sunset together.

24. Have a candlelight dinner for two at least once a year.

25. Flirt in public. (Yes, that means holding hands)

26. Cook for each other.

27. Whisper sweet nothings.

28. Always close your eyes. Staring is rude.

29. Share your deep dark secrets with each other. (Not all)

30. Laugh together.

31. When you say “I’m sorry” look her/him in the eyes.

32. Don’t let little mistakes become big mistakes.

33. Do anything to impress her/him.

34. Go for a drive together just to get lost.

35. Make love.

36. Make sacrifices for each other.

37. ALWAYS be honest with each other.

38. Give each other pet names.

39. Tell her/him your fantasies.

40. Tell her/him what you like and don’t like.

41. Write a story about how you two met and fell in love and give it to her/him.

42. Hugs are the best medicines.

43. NEVER EVER cheat on her/him.

44. Play silly games.

45. Find out what’s special to her/him and do it.

46. Spend all night thinking of 50 sweet things to do for her/him.

47. Always have a notepad and pen or some stationary with you wherever you are. This way when you’re waiting in line you can write them a quick love note.

48. During weeks when you feel you haven’t had enough time with each other, send a bouquet of flowers or other gift to their work, home or school.

49. When you look into they eyes, tell her/him how you feel deep down and gently kiss their cheek.

50. Put a note in her purse telling her to meet you somewhere for lunch